To recognize love

How can you tell who or what someone loves?

Do they give that person or thing the gift of their time?  Spending time together regularly?  What does that look like?  Does it count if they’re asleep?  I would think that waking hours count more.

Do they care about what that person cares about?

Do they check in if the other person has something important going on or a problem of some kind?

Do they do things for each other?

Do they laugh and have fun together?

Are they honest with each other?

Do they share what is important to them?

I’ve heard that you can tell what is important to someone by looking at where they spend their money.

What about where they spend their time?